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MCV – “IVF Setbacks” by Rachel Cook

June 24th, 2009 No comments

Rachel Cook discusses the delays for accessing IVF to same-sex couples – a delay of up to 5 months.

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Delays in police checks will mean that same-sex couples requiring IVF treatment could be waiting five months.

Lesbians and single women gained access to IVF last December when the Assisted Reproductive Treatment Bill was passed. However the bill also introduced police checks as part of the screening process for prospective IVF recipients.

The checks are designed to ensure that people seeking fertility treatment are “fit to parent”, having no history of violence or sexual assault.

As reported in the Herald Sun last week, a doctor from Melbourne IVF has voiced his concerns that the government has failed to ensure the infrastructure is in place to cope with high numbers of police checks.

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Gay Dads Australia Surrogacy Toolbar Now Available

June 23rd, 2009 No comments

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Gay Dads Australia is experimenting with ways of communicating with members and potential members.  We have a twitter account and and rss feed.  We now have a “Gay Dads Australia – Surrogacy Toolbar” for the Firefox, IE and Safari(WIN) browsers. 

It is only in it’s infant stages so far but has links to known surrogacy agencies that Gay Dads in OZ have used, links to GDA news, Link to the GDA website, Link to the Surrogacy Manual and a inbuilt radio (hopefully) tuned to JOY 94.9.

You can download it here.

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MCV – “Keeping Abreast” by Andrew Shaw

June 23rd, 2009 No comments

In this weeks edition of MCV [Melbourne] Gay Dad James talks about wanting to establish a Breast Milk bank in Australia for Gay Dads.

A group of gay men lobbying for a breast milk bank? The times they are a-changing, reports Andrew Shaw.

Being a father isn’t easy, even when your child’s mother is on the scene. But what happens when two dads get together and decide they want a kid? The answer is a financial, emotional and medical obstacle course that requires the stamina of an Olympic athlete to endure.

A Melbourne group that first met late last year hopes to take some of the difficulty out of the 1001 decisions that need to be made on the way to dual fatherhood. The Meeting Place is where gay dads who have, want to have, or have had kids can find information about parenting. You don’t have to have a newborn, you may have brought up yours already and want to pass on your knowledge. You don’t even have to have a child – just the desire to be a gay dad.

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TGLRG – Tasmanian Government Move on Same-Sex Parenting

June 17th, 2009 No comments

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TASMANIAN GAY AND LESBIAN RIGHTS GROUP

LGBT Media Release Wednesday June 17th 2009

TAS GOV MOVE ON SAME-SEX PARENTING APPLAUDED FAMILIES URGED TO CONTACT UPPER HOUSE MEMBERS

Tasmanian advocates have welcomed the State Government’s move to give equal legal recognition to the same-sex partners of women who have children through reproductive technology.

Legislation has been introduced which will automatically grant parent status to the same-sex partner of a woman who has a child through IVF or other reproductive technology, a right long available to heterosexual partners.

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Australian Marriage Equality – New Poll Shows Australians Overwhelmingly Support Same-Sex Marriage

June 16th, 2009 No comments

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AUSTRALIAN MARRIAGE EQUALITY – Media Release

NEW POLL SHOWS AUSTRALIANS OVERWHELMINGLY SUPPORT SAME-SEX MARRIAGE

A national opinion poll released today shows 60% of Australians believe same-sex couples should have the right to marry.

Australian Marriage Equality national convenor, Peter Furness, said that almost twice as many Australians now support equal marriage than oppose it.

"Clearly, Australians believe marriage is first and foremost about love and commitment, not your partner’s gender", Mr Furness said.

"This poll scuttles the only rationale put forward by the Rudd Government for opposing equality, namely that a majority of Australians believe marriage should only be between a man and a woman."

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Herald Sun – “Gay couples’ access to IVF delayed” by Georgie Pilcher

June 16th, 2009 No comments

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GAY couples wanting access to IVF and donor sperm will have to wait for authorities to develop a way to make sure they are fit to be parents.

Laws allowing same-sex couples access to donor sperm and extra IVF services will be delayed at least five more months amid claims the Government doesn’t have the technology or resources to implement mandatory police checks in the legislation.

The Assisted Reproductive Treatment Bill, passed in December, gave lesbian and single women access to donor sperm and additional IVF services, but it also made it compulsory for all women and their partners, and any man donating sperm, to have police and child protection record searches.

The Act was to be proclaimed on July 1, but Melbourne IVF director Dr John McBain said the Government had stalled, unable to handle the hundreds of expected record checks.

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New – Listen to the Gay Dads Australia News Direct from our Site

June 14th, 2009 No comments

sound_icon1.jpgWe have added a new feature to the Gay Dads Australia website.  You can now listen to any of the news postings simply by clicking on the link at the end of the post called “Listen to this post”.  Indeed, you will be able to listen to this post by clicking the link below.  You can also download the file as an MP3 file and put it on your music player to listen at any time. 

You can also subscribe to this via as a PodCast by clicking on the icon below or paste the PodCast URL in the “Subscribe to Podcast” section of a program like iTunes.

 

Link to Podcast (RSS feed) for this blog

Rainbow Families Conference Announced for Saturday 27 February 2010 in Melbourne

June 14th, 2009 No comments

The Rainbow Families Council in Victoria has just announced that the next Rainbow Families Conference will be held on Saturday 27 February 2010 in Melbourne.  They are currently requesting people suggest topics for workshops, presentations and special sessions and have a “Conference Suggestion Form” which you can complete to help shape the program for the Conference.  It is a great opportunity for Gay Dads to have a say and help the conference cater to the various needs of Gay Dads and Gay Dads to be. Whether it be something on Surrogacy, Fostering, Co-Parenting, Known Donors or something more general like child care issues or dealing with CentreLink.

To find our more about the Rainbow Families Council visit their website or participate in their survey.

[Link: Rainbow Families Council]

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Rainbow Families Inclusive Project – Assisting Early Childhood Services become inclusive of Rainbow Families

June 13th, 2009 No comments

The Rainbow Families Council (in Victoria) has just published their first newsletter for 2009.  One of the matters in the newsletter is the funding that they have received from a local council relating to inclusiveness of “rainbow families”. A great initiative.  I am reproducing the announcement below.

The Rainbow Families Council received funding from the City of Darebin Community Grants round 2008/2009 to develop a new resource to assist early childcare services (i.e.Maternal & Child Health, Kindergartens, Child Care Centres) become more inclusive of same sex parented families.

We are seeking your ideas, personal stories and experiences to assist us in developing this new resource. The new resource may include an online booklet, posters, stickers; fact sheets… the ideas are endless.

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Gay Dads Victoria – Discussion: Your child’s Physical Health and Development – 14 July 2009

June 13th, 2009 No comments

gdv-meeting What: Gay Dads Victoria – Discussion: Your child’s Physical Health and Development

When: 14 July 2009 – 6.00pm to 7.30pm

Where: Drummond Street Relationship Centre 195 Drummond St Carlton, VIC 3053, Australia


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JOY 94.9 Radiothon – Time to Support the Station that Supports Us

June 13th, 2009 No comments

download For those people in Melbourne who listen to JOY 94.9 Radio and those interstate/overseas who listen to JOY on the web, this is a message for you. 

JOY 94.9 is currently running their annual Radiothon.  I would like to encourage people to renew their membership or join up during the Radiothon period to help keep JOY on the air and going strong.

JOY 94.9 has been an ongoing and strong supporter of GAY DADS and Gay Dads Australia over the years.  Every year they run our Community Service Announcement (CSA) on a high rotation.  This costs us nothing (which is good because we don’t have any money!) but provides a way of reaching out to Gay Dads and potential Gay Dads in our community.  Over the years many of us from Gay Dads have appeared as guests on various programs, talking about and sharing our experiences about being Gay Dads.  It has allowed us to connect to each other and helped others who may feel isolated as Gay Parents know that they are not alone.  JOY 94.9 has been a wonderful help in fulfilling our aims of being a social, support and information source to Gay Dads and Dads to be.

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Out in Perth – “Surrogacy and Gay Dads”

imageWhen it comes to having kids, gay and lesbian couples face a few obvious logistical problems over and above to the sheer drama of bringing them up!  OutinPerth caught up with gay couple Matt and Martin who gave the lowdown on their chosen path to parenthood.

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….On Choosing Surrogacy

After a lot of research we found that this was the best option for us.  Surrogacy is a regular practice in the US and  we specifically decided to go to California as this is one of the few places in the world where 2 men could be on the Birth Certificate.  We also found that we were covered completely legally and we  didn’t want to take any risks or not know exactly where we stood throughout the process.  Medically they have some of the best IVF doctors in the world and being that Matt’s sister is our egg donor also, healthcare was a priority.

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Out In Perth – “Rainbow Families: Getting Started”

First published on 11 May 2009 in Out in Perth.

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One of the most noticeable changes in the community in recent years is the increasingly high profile of GLBT families. There’s a diverse range of ways in which people are building families, and a vast range of issues and challenges involved. Over coming months, OUTinPerth will be catching up with people in our community to share some of the stories of the families they’re building and the issues they’re facing. This month, Marnie Woodley shares the story of how she, her partner Leonie and their friend Josh have approached starting a family.

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Australian Government – Same Sex Couples and Child Support – New Laws

image The Australian Federal Government through their Child Support Agency has released a “Same Sex Fact Sheet” about the changes to the law covering same sex couples and child support issues.  A full copy of the “fact sheet” is available here.  The following situations are exemplified in the “Fact Sheet”.  These laws come in on 1 July 2009.

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Gay Dads Australia – News & Media – Now Available on both iPhone and other Mobile Phones

The Gay Dads Australia News and Media blog is now easily accessible from all Mobile Phones (including iPhones).  Just simply visit http://gaydadsaustralia.mofuse.mobi/ using your Mobile phone browser, bookmark it and then just visit it to see the latest news on Gay and Lesbian parenting in Australia.  It is that simple.

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Gay Dads Australia – News Now on iPhone

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If you have an Apple iPhone and would like to get this blog as a web app on the iPhone, all you need to do is open Safari on the iPhone and click this link or enter the following in your iPhone Safari browser: http://blog2iphone.com/blogs/GayDadsAustralia/#_home.  This will bring up a specially formatted iPhone web app for Gay Dads Australia news.  To save it, just add it to your home screen.

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The Hump Day Crew – Joy 94.9 – Gay Dads Victoria – Surrogacy Forum

The Hump Day Crew chat to Rodney from Gay Dads Victoria about the upcoming Forum on Gay Surrogacy, his personal story of the birth of his son Ethan in America and much more around surrogacy.

To find out more about this group visit their website www.gaydadsaustralia.com

Click here to listen to the full interview!

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Same Same – “Australia’s Surrogacy Pitfalls” by Christian Taylor

News.com.au have reported on a Queensland woman who is acting as a surrogate for her gay brother. The baby she’s carrying was fathered by a third party through artificial insemination, and the gay man plans to raise the baby as a single dad. The baby is due early in 2010 and will know who its biological mother is.

The article reports that the surrogacy is illegal in her home state of Queensland.

“Surrogacy laws in Australia are largely regulated by the states and it varies from state to state,” says gay legal professional Ghassan Kassisieh. “In Queensland, all surrogacy is illegal. In NSW, commercial surrogacy (paying a fee or giving a reward for surrogacy services) will be outlawed when the Assisted Reproductive Technology Act 2007 commences, but altruistic surrogacy (where there is no financial gain or reward involved) will remain legal. Advertising for surrogacy services is also illegal in some states.”

“I understand that my own situation is a little different to what people would normally hear about,” the father to be told News.com.au.

“I guess the other thing that makes my situation a little unique is that I intend to be a sole parent. I am single, and am looking forward to being a single dad.”

Rodney Cruise, a spokesperson for Gay Dads Australia, told News.com.au that there could be hundreds of these kinds of surrogacy pregnancies happening out there, despite the illegality. Cruise says that these arrangements are considered, well-planned and that the man is lucky to have a family member who is willing to do this for him.

Some experts say that such arrangements are unnecessarily breaking the bonds between mother, father and child, and that prospective parents can be faced with children who, down the track, may demand to live with their biological parents.

“Sometimes [children] decide not to get along with their parents with whom they live with because they have leaving options. What if the sister didn’t like the way her brother raised her child? She could legally take the child back.”

“Apart from the legality of surrogacy, the big problem is really after a child is born and determining who are the legal parents,” says Kassisieh. “In most states (including NSW), the surrogate mother (and her partner, if any) will be the legal parents and there are very few avenues for having the child legally recognised as the child of the intended parent(s). This is the case even if the surrogacy arrangement goes to plan and the parties are all in agreement.

“In such states, the best option for the intended parents is a parenting order from the Family Court awarding them parental responsibility, however this does not grant all the rights of full legal parentage. The surrogate mother and her partner, if any, remain as the legal parents to the child (e.g. for inheritance reasons, accident compensation, state and federal-based legal rights etc.) for the remainder of their child’s life.

“In some states (e.g. ACT, Victoria, WA), the intended parents can get a court order in some circumstances transfering the legal parentage from the surrogate mother (and her partner, if any) if the surrogate mother consents. This effectively allows the intended parents to ‘adopt’ their child, if all parties agree, the agreement satisfies the conditions of the law, and the court determines that a parentage order would be in the best interests of the child. In other words, the child is fully recognised as the child of the intended parents – and not the child of anyone else.”

 

[Link: Original Article]

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Channel 7 – Sunrise – “Gay Surrogacy Debate” with Jason Tuazon-McCheyne – Watch Online

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Marie Claire Magazine – “What Does Your Family Look Like?” by Alison Tait

From “Families of Friends” to living with the in-laws, our home life has never been more diverse.  Allison Tait talks to seven Australians about the most important people in their lives.

(Ed: One of those couples is Ben Hall and Arthur Thomson and their four children, Brooke, Emma, Aiden and Ashton)

imageGay couple Ben and Arthur say having their children through surrogates was difficult – but definitely worth it.

“Arthur and I went to great lengths to have our children – and we love and appreciate them so much.  A year after we met, in 2000, we approached an American agency that matched us with a surrogate and egg donor.  It was the only option; in Australia, single or gay men can’t adopt.

“For three years, we went through the heartache of failed attempts – either the pregnancies didn’t take, or donors pulled out.  It was a stressful, emotional – and expensive – time.  But I believe in chasing what you want.  You only get one shot at life.  We were there, in South Dakota for the birth of the girls, and the experience was sheer happiness.  I was in awe of, and in love with, these babies.

“All our children are biologically the kids of one of us, but we don’t talk about who.  We’d prefer they were viewed as ‘ours’. We’ve never had a negative response to being two gay dads.  Kids at creche have raised it, but our children just say, ‘I’ve got two daddies’.  We’re mindful the girls need female influences, and they spend time with our female friends.  The kids do ask about their mum, and we say they don’t have one; an egg donor is not a mother. We tell them they have two dads – two dads who love them to death”.

[Link: Original Article]

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